Protection and well-being
My child is being bullied: Here's what to do now
Listen calmly and take your child seriously. Then decide whether there is immediate danger or whether the school and school social work should begin a protection and clarification process.
Assess the situationChoose your situation
You will then see the appropriate path. The selection is not saved.
Imminent danger or suicidal thoughts
Do not leave your child alone and open the emergency page immediately.
Get help immediatelyRepeated exclusion or bullying
Document incidents. Contact your class teacher and school social work. Arrange specific protective measures and a check-up appointment.
A single conflict
Do not listen to both sides yourself. Discuss with the teacher what was observed and what clarification is appropriate at school.
Cyberbullying
Don't reply. Save screenshots. Report content on the platform and block accounts involved. Decide with a specialist whether the police are necessary.
Open Cyberbullying HelpYou can do that now
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Listen without accusation or interrogation.
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Record the date, place, participants and effect.
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Contact the class teacher and school social work.
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Agree on protective measures, responsibility and an inspection date.
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If there is no improvement, contact the school administration.
Details for your next step
What happens next
- School social work provides advice voluntarily and generally confidentially. If the child is in danger, she must act.
- 147 can be reached by telephone 24 hours a day. WhatsApp is available daily from 7:30 a.m. to 10 p.m.; If it is urgent, you should call.
What to avoid
- Giving the child some of the blame
- Confront other children or parents directly
- Distribute content on social media
- Hope for an improvement without a check-up appointment
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School social work at your school
Conflicts, exclusion, stress and social problems
School psychology service
School, psychological and family stress
Advice 147
Help for children and young people – by telephone around the clock
Document bullying incidents
Important terms
School social work
School social work advises children, young people and parents directly at the school.
The advice is voluntary and fundamentally confidential.Sources and topicalityWhere this information comes from
Open Knowledge summarizes official information in an understandable manner. In case of differences, the linked official source applies.
The responsible body will examine and decide on your personal case.